What I'm Reading #33: Bird by Bird (Anne Lamott)

Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life, by Anne Lamott

We read Bird by Bird (Anchor Books 1994) for my introductory preaching class this fall, and I loved it. Not only was it enormously helpful for preaching and writing in general (which I'm wanting to pursue more of), it holds a lot of important lessons for life. Plus Anne Lamott is brilliant and slightly unstable, which I love.

Lamott handily dispels the myth that writing is easy for writers. Throughout my life, I've periodically felt the urge to write more (like right now), but when I sit down and am unable to produce beautiful prose immediately, I assume I'm just not cut out to be a writer. Turns out, writing is hard even and especially for writers. This I find encouraging.

Another thing Lamott said that I appreciated is that perfectionism is a tyrant. We need to be willing to write (in her words) "shitty first drafts," work on them, and then let them go even when we aren't totally satisfied with them. This sounds an awful lot like life to me. Are any of us ever really going to get it together? If not, can that be OK?

Finally, she has a lot in there about what my counselor called (while diagnosing me with it) a "reassurance addition." I posted a poem by Philip Lopate that Lamott reprinted in Bird by Bird that illustrates this insane need for love and attention that she often feels (and with which I strongly identify). Whether in writing, any other line of work or life in general, we need to be able to trust from within that we are enough. Yes, others can encourage and support us, but ultimately, if we do not see ourselves as lovable or good or sufficient, nothing anyone else can say will help at all. A major part of being a good writer (and, I would argue, a good preacher) is being comfortable in one's own skin and non-anxiously assured of one's own gifting and calling.

I'm not doing this book justice, but I would definitely recommend it. I liked it even more than Lamott's more popular Traveling Mercies.


Favorite Quotations

"Good writing is about telling the truth."

"We all know we're going to die; what's important is the kind of men and women we are in the face of this."

"Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor."

"If you don't believe in what you are saying, there is no point in your saying it."

"Don't look at your feet to see if you are doing it right. Just dance."

"If you want to know how God feels about money, look at whom she gives it to."

"Being enough was going to have to be an inside job."

"Truth is always subversive."